“Scooter Person” Jane Fonda

Karma? Serendipity? Call it what you will… I’ve only written to one celebrity in my life, Jane Fonda, and that was just a few months ago (read below). Then, last night at dinner in Ashland, Oregon I shook hands with her. Lovely lady. My post to Jane Fonda's website on embracing one’s inner “scooter person”: … Continue reading “Scooter Person” Jane Fonda

Confessions of a Caregiver, Vol. 3, When Opportunity Knocks

When service is selfless, it brings joy and peace. When it is rendered with attachment, it brings pain and suffering. If we experience suffering in service, we can examine the way we offered it. An exquisite path of awakening!—Ellen Grace O'Brian There was a knock on the door, the entry from the open garage into … Continue reading Confessions of a Caregiver, Vol. 3, When Opportunity Knocks

Where do we go from here?

 "To die will be an awfully big adventure." —Peter Pan She wouldn’t tell me why she was scared. She didn’t need to; I knew why: Nudgemamma ("Nudgie" for short), Hungarian for "grandma," was there to die, transition, pass on, kick the bucket, go off the grid, whatever you want to call not living in a … Continue reading Where do we go from here?

Confessions of a Caregiver, Vol. 2, The One Constant

Hard goodbyes Claire and I returned to New Zealand at the beginning of 2014 to wrap things up. During our two-month stay, we finished selling our holdings, a process that entailed donating bag after bag of accumulated stuff, gifting books and equipment, all the necessary steps in letting go of living a decade Down Under. … Continue reading Confessions of a Caregiver, Vol. 2, The One Constant

Almost Dying for a Cure

They ferried us away in an unmarked van to avoid controversy, the driver reassuring us that crossing over the Mexican border was easiest at this 6 AM hour. One couple, a stylish woman and her equally stylish husband, had done this journey before. The older woman in the backseat, obviously a first timer like us, … Continue reading Almost Dying for a Cure

Confessions of a Caregiver, Vol. 1, First Comes Love

So, let’s start with who I am, and about Claire and myself. I’m Lou, Claire’s husband and life partner, AKA Mr. Turner, Mr. Tucker and Mr. Flip-it (the colorful caregiver monikers to be clarified at a later time). I am 75-years young with Claire being 53-years young. (That’s right, we’re the exact same ages as … Continue reading Confessions of a Caregiver, Vol. 1, First Comes Love

And then the unimaginable happened

I just didn’t see it coming. I knew since I was 18 that I had FSH muscular dystrophy. But I figured I was one of the lucky ones, able to walk and lift and smile with little difficulty. The thought of ever needing a wheelchair - pssh! - never crossed my mind. At 53, I’ve … Continue reading And then the unimaginable happened

The Backstory: Growing Up with Muscular Dystrophy

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Published in Australian Yoga Life magazine, the following article tells my story about growing up with muscular dystrophy and how yoga helped. I wrote this piece in 2014 when the condition was really just starting to rock my world. Much more was about to change, but more on that later. First, the backstory: Read muscular … Continue reading The Backstory: Growing Up with Muscular Dystrophy

Going Places

Actively engaging with the world is essential for body and soul. Mine anyway. As someone living with FSH muscular dystrophy, getting out of the house, out of my head and into the world is as life-sustaining as breathing good, fresh air. Here's the rub: Mother Nature is a wonderful healer and teacher, but accessibility to … Continue reading Going Places